I am not married, nor have I ever dated another adoptee, but I often think about it.  One thing that came up in my mind is hypothetically if I marry a adopted Korean girl (I'm a Korean adoptee as well) and we have children, then there may be heritage issues with the next generation.  My children would be full-blooded, non-adopted Koreans, yet pretty much have no more Korean culture than I do.  As an adoptee, it is easy to tell people I'm adopted, for them to understand the lack of Korean culture, yet I wonder how life would be for my children.  Just food for thought.